Our society tells women they need to be sexy to get attention and be accepted, even when parents may try to do their best to raise a young woman in a good manner, our social trends can damage this. Society and peer pressure plays a huge part in defining how women view themselves and their surrounding world while they grow into adulthood and beyond.

How many young women are currently posting images or trying to gain status by giving way to the same trends of the music industry, the media they absorb and the targeted sexual content they are constant bombarded with on a daily basis? We have been teaching our children that to be accepted you need to be some perverted version of perfection verses teach values, kindness and love. We allow our children to absorb too much toxic media and this causes toxic teenagers and young ladies to be promiscuous at younger ages.  

Anyone who disagrees with this article needs to step back and take a good look around our communities and high schools, you can see for yourselves the impact and question why. If you hesitate to believe this do your own research and look around, can you tell physically the difference between a 17 year old young woman and a 27 year young old woman? It is usually more obvious the difference in a 17 year old male compared to a 27 year old male but more and more we are pressuring young people to be adults at earlier ages while expecting them to still act like teenagers and this is causing a lot of issues both culturally and systematically which is leading to more men in our jails and the downfall of strong solid men presence in our world!

Unfortunately we then turn our poor parenting and bad behaviors onto men who we accuse being the so called “bad guys” in our societies failing and damaging trends! It is sad and it needs to change. We need to understand how much damage we have been doing to the male collective and how it has harmed the entire balance of our human condition.